Posts Tagged ‘Personal Growth’

Build Upon the Narrative

The quote “Rewrite your story” has been popping up all over my social media. Is trying to change your past trending? Is it really that healthy? In my own personal opinion, it is the furthest thing from growth and healing possible. It is the furthest thing from acceptance. It is the furthest thing from building…

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Snuggling Uncertainty

What would happen if we challenged ourselves to snuggle with uncertainty? We fear it, we avoid it, we struggle more because we are clinging so hard to an idea of certainty. When really, the only certainty through our lives is uncertainty. I believe we get convinced of “certainty” from an early age. For many reasons…

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Bonus: Old Dogs Learn New Tricks

This week’s quick self-check Shek Check, is dissolving the idea that “Old dogs can’t learn new tricks”. So I know something I got in the habit of doing, (and actively trying to stop) is placing limiting beliefs on others. “This is how they are, they will never change”. I realized that limiting belief of others…

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Bonus: (de)Serving You

“Sometimes it is you who isn’t giving you what you deserve” – We talk so much about how much we deserve, from others. We think so much about how much we deserve, from others. We get caught up in the emotions and actions that are born from that. Affecting a lot in our life. If…

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Checkin’ Our Allies

Our Allies¬† stand by us,¬† they support us, they fight with us, and they fight for us. Allies are important for all of us, and especially for any marginalized community. Since, it is LGBT Pride Month and I am a proud gay man, I celebrate a pride I did not always have. I also celebrate…

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